Ladies, Wives and Women

During the Napoleonic wars it was customary for British troops ordered on active service to take some of their wives with them. The usual proportion was six women per hundred men. The wives who were to accompany their husbands were chosen by ballot: excitement for the lucky ones and anguish for those left behind. The latter often marched with the regiment to the port of departure, desperate to remain with their men till the last moment, and there were harrowing scenes as families were separated, perhaps forever.

The women who were to accompany their husbands had to endure all the hazards of the high seas, often in slow and leaky transports. In bad weather, conditions resembled a slave ship, with men and women battened down below, rolling about and seasick in the darkness. There were storms, fires, childbirth and sometimes shipwreck to contend with.

Once landed in the theatre of war, the women faced a life of almost constant marching in summer heat and winter cold. Most of them managed to acquire a donkey to carry their few possessions. There were no tents until late in the war, and regiments were either quartered in whatever buildings were available, or bivouacked in the open. Clothing and especially shoes wore out, and women often had to supply their wants by stripping the dead. Food was frequently in short supply, and, as they were entitled only to half a man’s ration, they were notorious plunderers. This frequently resulted in brutal punishment from the provost marshals.

After battles or sieges, soldiers’ wives tended the wounded, but they were also determined looters, and shared the army’s besetting sin of drunkenness. Occasionally they were taken prisoner, and were sometimes involved in the actual fighting. More often they had to search a battlefield for a wounded husband or his mutilated remains. Many women were widowed, and solved the problem by quick remarriage to another soldier, some of them several times.

After the war, the survivors came home to an uncertain future. Some prospered; others slipped into penury. Some had a surprising later life, and a few earned themselves permanent memorials. Most vanished from the record. This book is an attempt to shed some light on these forgotten heroines and their part in the country’s long war against the French.

"......This book draws you in, and makes sure that the lives of British army wives will no longer be overlooked. It is well written and clearly very well researched. Part militant study, part social history, it is an important book for that reason alone and it should be a must for every enthusiast for the period." Colin Ashton, Carryings On Up the Dale Blog

"..This very readable book enables wargamers to develop a much better understanding of the hardships and dangers endured by the women who ‘followed the drum’ and the courage and fortitude they displayed. Their world was a very different one from the genteel round of social calls, decorous flirtations and balls enjoyed by Miss Austen’s heroines! It may also, perhaps, inspire some to reflect in campaign rules the problems arising when crowds of women and their donkeys blocked roads required for military vehicles or to create scenarios for skirmish wargames in which army wives play a more significant part than merely providing attractive decorative vignettes on the edges of miniature tabletop battlefields." Miniature Wargames